Let’s be honest: do you talk one way with your friends, and another way when you’re at brunch with your in-laws? If so… you’re not alone. But are you fake, or just flexible?
According to a new poll, 14% of people admit they “often” change the way they speak or act depending on who they’re talking to. Another 32% say they do it sometimes, while 23% swear they never do it (uh huh, sure).
It’s not just how we act either — 21% of people say others around them do this all the time, and nearly half of us notice it sometimes.
So what’s the verdict? Fake or flexible?
This kind of “social shifting” has people divided:
- 33% say it’s mostly a good thing
- 28% say it’s fake or bad
- 38% aren’t sure and probably just nod and smile depending on who’s asking
There’s definitely a fine line. Some people see it as a red flag — like you’re playing different characters for different crowds. Others see it as emotional intelligence: adjusting your energy to match the situation.
I mean, being yourself is great… but maybe your unfiltered version shouldn’t tell your co-worker’s wife that her newborn “already looks like a tired accountant named Gary.”
Time for a vibe check:
Do YOU act differently depending on who you’re with?Drop a DM or hit the phones — Dex & Barbie T want to know if this makes you “fake,” or just socially fluent. Because let’s be honest… your work voice and your bestie voice are NOT the same. 🎭📱
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