Relationship expert reveals 6 different personalities - from the rude ‘reply roulette texter’ to the love bomb replier.
On-the-Go Replier’An on-the-go replier is a busy bee. They make an effort to reply, which is why it always seems to be in transit mode. Sometimes this can come across as aloof, but they have good intentions deep down. They will also stop a text conversation mid-flow as they head into a meeting or hop on their flight. It can make others feel they don’t have time for them, which technically is true to some degree.
‘However, they should try to understand that the intentions of positive communication are there, even if they come across as occasionally rushed, not fully present, and distracted.’
Strategic Texter’A strategic texter is someone who makes contact for their own benefit. They are in it for themselves and will use manipulation tactics to get what they want. This is why this texting type is known as the strategic texter. They will make it seem like they are being thoughtful or doing you a favour, but it is all premeditated for their own gain.
‘It often leaves people feeling like they are just a pawn in the texter’s game, only useful in certain situations.’
The expert suggests ‘delaying the initial reply and asking yourself why they might really be reaching out. Read between the lines. By sitting back, pausing, and replying when you are not busy, you can help ensure you aren’t taken advantage of and can better understand their intentions.’
Emoji ReplierAn emoji replier as ‘someone who has the habit of responding with emojis to convey their thoughts or emotions’.
‘They are classified as being lazy texters, given that they might reply to even long texts with a thumbs-up, for example. They are not necessarily “on-the-go” but most likely can’t be bothered to reply with written words and think an emoji suffices. They may have multiple WhatsApp conversations going on, switching between them, or might be distracted at work.’
Love Bomber Texter’ Just like in the dating world, love bombing is very common in texting scenarios. Love bombers will overwhelm your phone with funny, romantic, wonderful things, or even gossip.
‘Treat a love bomber texter with a pinch of salt. Their charming words should not make you feel abandoned later, which tends to happen.
‘If they are a love interest and are messing you around, walk away. If they are a friend or relative, try to explain that you would prefer to have actual conversations with them.’
Guaranteed Replier’A guaranteed replier will always text back, as they are people-pleasers. You can expect a speedy reply, come rain or shine. This type of texter is flexible and tolerant, often putting others’ needs before their own.’
‘They likely reply to others to fulfill a deep desire to be liked and loved. Because they meet others’ emotional needs efficiently, there is a risk that a guaranteed replier will overlook their own needs.
‘It’s therefore important not to pile too much onto them and to try to retain some balance. They might not always be the right friend to seek advice from, as they have a habit of trying to craft perfect responses.
Reply Roulette Texter’A reply roulette texter will only reply to some messages, evidently cherry-picking when they want to engage in a text exchange.’
‘Most people on the receiving end will assume the reply roulette texter will have missed a message accidentally. However, when it becomes a repeated occurrence, it’s clear they are deliberately avoiding certain texts. This can be extremely frustrating when you need an answer about plans or an important confirmation.
‘To outsmart a reply roulette texter, play them at their own game. Stop the banter and friendly exchanges and only reply with the specific question you need answered.’
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